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    In dreams…an illness that never sleeps!

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    January 27, 2015

    It is often said that we have an illness of addiction that never rests, when you are in a meeting it is outside doing press ups, when you awake it is at the foot of the bed waiting, “hey ready to go!” In the early weeks and months (years) of…

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    Do we have to Hit Rock Bottom to Recover?

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    January 22, 2015
    Do we have to Hit Rock Bottom to Recover?

    My own experience shows  that we have to concede to our inner selves that we are alcoholic and that we need help from others.

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    Shame and Addiction

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    January 21, 2015

    In the next few weeks we will be looking at Shame and Addiction – shame leads to the self pity and depression that can drive drinking and relapse – nicely summed up here in this quote from  The Little Prince. “- Why are you drinking? – the little prince asked.…

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    Filling the Empty Self

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    January 20, 2015

    In the first part of this two part blog – we looked at how addicts in recovery move from a more negative (perhaps chronically negative) self schema to a more positive recovering self schema and how this now sense of self and the new interrelatedness with others which develops in…

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    Reconstructing the Hole in the Soul – part 1

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    January 16, 2015

    In this two part blog I will look at how positive (as opposed to negative) views of self (self schema) lie at the heart of successful recovery and how negative self schema keep addicts in active addiction. I cite this study for much of these blogs (1)… “Psycho-social and environmental…

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    Recovering the Real Self

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    January 15, 2015

    It is often said that alcoholics and addict fear nothing more than rejection. Little did I know this is based on a maladaptive self schema many addicts carry, even in recovery. It has always been an “achilles heel” of mine and I often thought people were rejecting me when they…

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    Recovering from Stigma

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    January 14, 2015

    New post on The Alcoholics Guide to Alcoholism Recovering from Stigma by alcoholicsguide Our last blog “Addicts continue to Face Widespread Stigma”looked at the stigma towards addicts that still prevails in much of society. As addiction can often seem to be fuelled at times by negative emotions such as guilt…

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    Addicts Continue to Face Widespread Stigma

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    January 12, 2015

    Addiction seen as a moral failing!? I came across this article from a few months ago which shows we as a collective have not come very far in understanding addiction and that society continues to stigmatize those suffering from addiction. It makes depressing reading considering the advances in neuroscientific evidence…

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  • a pathomechanism of alcoholism, addiction, addition as attachment theory?, Emotional Processing Deficits, emotional regulation

    Insecure attachment affects emotion regulation in alcoholics?

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    January 7, 2015

    I have blogged recently about how insecure attachment is linked to various addictive behaviours. What is important is to establish a mechanism by which insecure attachment contributes to later addictive disorders. It may not be enough to say attachment and addiction are linked but that they are linked via a pathomechanism of…

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    Happy New Year – 365 one days at a time!

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    December 31, 2014

    I take this my 101st blog to wish you all a healthy and happy New Year.   I would also like to thank you for reading my blogs and hope that you have gotten something from them to help you and yours on the road to happy destiny. God Bless,…

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