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    Maintaining emotional sobriety (and sanity) via Steps 10-12

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    June 30, 2014

    When I have did my steps 4-7, noting the situations, the people, the institutions  that have caused persistent resentments in me, then examining what parts of my self have been affected,  I also, thanks to one sponsor was asked me to,  put down exactly what “sins” or defects of character…

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  • 12 steps, Alcoholics Anonymous, emotional distress, Emotional Dysregulation, emotional processing, emotional regulation, Genetics, meditation, rumination, self elaboration, spiritual solution?

    Processing the Past via the action steps, 4-12!

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    June 27, 2014

        Processing the Past via the actions steps, 4-12! by alcoholicsguide How The Alcoholics Anonymous’ program of action helps with emotional dysregulation. When I first came into recovery I was surprised how much more time I spent embroiled in thinking about past incidents and how I had numerous murderous resentments  about…

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  • compulsion, craving, emotional distress, explicit memory, implicit memory, Reasons for Relapse

    One Christmas I nearly relapsed!

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    June 26, 2014

      One Christmas I nearly relapsed! by alcoholicsguide “One Christmas, I nearly relapsed. I did not wish to relapse, in fact I would rather put a gun to my head and blow my brains out! Nonetheless, I was indeed about to relapse. It seemed urgently inevitable. The emotional distress I had suffered…

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  • “mental obsession”, abstinence, acceptance, addiction, alcohol related thoughts, alcoholism, craving, Emotional Dysregulation, obsessive thoughts, stinking thinking, thought suppression

    When fighting your neural ghosts make sure to surrender!!

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    June 24, 2014

    When I was in early recovery, in the first weeks and months my brain would continually trick me into thinking I was not an alcoholic and it did this via a combination of  stress and memory. The process went like this – first I would have an intrusive thought about…

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  • “mental obsession”, abstinence, addiction, alcohol related thoughts, alcoholism, craving, Emotional Dysregulation, intrusive thoughts, obsessive thoughts, Reasons for Relapse, thought suppression

    A Cognitive Model of Craving – Pt 3

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    June 23, 2014

    In an earlier blog we asked the question whether  neurobiological or “conditioning” or reinforcement models of craving predict relapse in abstinent alcoholics and addicts? For us this is the most essential question. How do we explain relapse in those individuals motivated to remain abstinent, especially when they have followed some form of treatment,…

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  • abstinence, acceptance, addiction, emotional regulation, mindfulness

    Acceptance is the Key – Using Acceptance-Based Mindfulness to Promote Emotional Regulation

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    June 18, 2014

    One of the leading researchers in the area of emotional regulation difficulties and the advocacy of acceptance-based Mindfulness in treatment of these emotional regulation problems is  Kim Gratz. In the first in a series of blogs about how different treatments address the intrinsic emotional dysregulation at the heart of addiction…

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    “All truth passes through three stages…”

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    June 16, 2014

    “All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.” Arthur Schopenhauer.

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  • alexithymia, Emotional Dysregulation, emotional processing, Emotional Processing Deficits, emotional regulation

    How far have we come in understanding this emotional disorder?

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    June 16, 2014

    A constant thread throughout our blogs so far has been an assertion that alcoholism and addiction are primarily emotional regulation and processing disorders. So we were thus  very interested to find this article (1) which describes how we are not the first to view alcoholism and addiction this way. Here…

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  • abstinence, addiction, alcoholism, Emotional Dysregulation, emotional processing, Emotional Processing Deficits, emotional regulation, Executive dysfunctions, impulse control

    Emotional Dysregulation, recovery and relapse

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    June 14, 2014

    Throughout our blogs thus far, we have attempted to highlight how emotional dysregulation appears to prevalent to all aspects of alcoholism and addiction from pre-morbid vulnerability to endpoint compulsive addictive behaviours. Here we highlight a few articles which have considered how prevalent is emotional dysregulation in alcoholism and addiction in early…

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  • “mental obsession”, alcohol related thoughts, craving, intrusive thoughts, obsessive thoughts

    Is the “mental obsession” of the Big Book relative to how severe your addiction is?

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    June 13, 2014

    Involuntary retrieval of drug related thoughts is a hallmark of addicted populations. Intensity of obsessive thoughts about alcohol predict relapse rate (1), with addicts motivated to use drugs to “silence” obsessive thoughts (2).  The idea that abstinence automatically decreases alcohol-related thoughts is challenged by research (3) and supported by clinical…

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